Knocking on The Back Door - A Guide to Anal Toy Fun

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Knocking on The Back Door - A Guide to Anal Toy Fun

Knocking on The Back Door: A Guide To Anal Toy Fun

So, you think you’re ready to explore the backside of love. But you don’t know where to start. Have no fear. We have the answers for you here. First, let’s start with some communication.

How to bring it up to your partner:

This sex act needs some communication. A surprise “attack” does not often end well, pun intended. So what do you do? It’s best to keep the conversation light. Start talking about each other’s fantasies and what might be another area that may be exciting for the two of you. If your partner seems like he or she may be somewhat interested, then you’ve been given the green light to explore.

How To Prepare:

Now, don’t just “Wham Bam, Thank you, Ma’am.” That little tunnel of love is as sensitive as you think. When you are a newcomer to any anal play, you need a little instructional how to. Because, let’s face it: we’re not used to something coming in through the out door. It can be exciting, naughty and pretty damn scary! So, the best way to enjoy yourself, is arm yourself with some simple tips to make sure you’ll have the pleasurable experience possible.

Some suggestions:

Start slowly. A little bit at a time. Seriously. You want the muscles in your anal cavity to relax and get used to having “company.” In fact, you'll want to start with something else besides his erector set. Have your partner insert his finger one knuckle at a time then breathe into it…. and relax. Once you feel comfortable and are not tensing up, then that’s your green light to move forward.

Just make sure it's something small and that you insert it a LITTLE bit at a time. Then just rest there for a moment and let your little sphincter get used to the sensation. Then when you think you're ready, you can move it a little deeper. Don't rush, you want this to be fun, remember?

Don't even THINK about anal sex without a ton of lube. Remember TLC: Tender LUBIN’ Care The anal cavity does NOT create the same yummy exciting moisture a happy kitty would. That’s why man created LUBE. And if you’re thinking about anal lovin’ for the first time, you’d be crazy not to grab lube as well. Consider it a NECESSITY. You do NOT want to hurt yourself. The anal walls do not stretch like the vaginal walls do. So, especially when starting out, make sure you grab yourself some ASTROGLIDE or another favorite,

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Stop Freaking about the Poop!

I know you're gonna panic about your pooper, well, pooping!

Sure it's possible that you could have a little feces if you're feeling like you gotta go, but truthfully, the rectum is a passageway not a storage center.

Feces accumulates in the colon, which is a good 5-9 inches away. It would have have to still go down your anal canal.

So you have a bit of a safety zone.

But I would say if you're squeamish, then by all means use a lubricated condom. That's smart anyhow, because you can spread STD's through anal sex too. So be smart about it.

Stay in Control

You get to call the shots on this one. It's you butt, it's your call.

That means you get to slowly move onto his erection, not him pushing into you.And keep on communicating. If it's too much, or you change your mind or that's enough for one night, cool. Just keep him posted. You need to be the one comfortable with what’s going on or you will be the one in pain.

BRING IN SOME TOYS

Of course, one of the best ways to play in the back is with toys. I mean, just because you grow up doesn’t mean you need to give up toys! That’s what toys are for. Not only do they hit all the happy notes, but they help you ease on into this new world naughty fun.

So… where to start?

Anal beads are a fabulous way to experiment with back door love. Especially for newcomers. They come in different sizes and are comfortably inserted. These little beads are made of silicone, jelly or plastic and when removed slowly can create some serious stimulation without any pain. Because the last thing you want is to have something that feels like a watermelon entering you. Check out these for some fab fun here:

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BUTT PLUGS: If you are thinking about trying a dildo type toy, then you want one especially made for the bum. Why? Because Butt plugs and dildos have special thick bases, so they will not get lost inside… and make for a very embarrassing night in the emergency room. That’s right, baby, we think of everything for you.

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To Vibe or Not to Vibe: That is the Question

Then, there are those of you that want to experience some more stimulating toys.. that add a bit of pizzazz. So we offer those vibrating toys to add the VA-VA to your Voom. See how easy your world can be shaken ND stirred with a little vibration. Check out this baby:

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Don’t forget to keep the toys clean. Especially when dealing with matter of the derriere. We have a special cleanser that will keep your toys squeaky clean and ready to go for the next play date!

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And for those of you who think it all sounds good but don’t know where to start, baby, look no further, we got it all in one darling kit. You can start slim and work your way up… think GOLDILOCKS.. You want to find the fit that is just right. Perhaps the best fit would be a multi pack like this:

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The BOTTOM line is there is a happy Ending for everyone….